{"id":839,"date":"2023-05-04T09:04:20","date_gmt":"2023-05-04T07:04:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/szantaipszichologus.hu\/?p=839"},"modified":"2023-05-04T09:38:52","modified_gmt":"2023-05-04T07:38:52","slug":"edzoje-beszolt-neki-ez-motivalta-balajcza-szabolcsot","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/szantaipszichologus.hu\/en\/edzoje-beszolt-neki-ez-motivalta-balajcza-szabolcsot\/","title":{"rendered":"Coach's criticism motivated Szabolcs Balajcza"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Introduction<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the first part of this article series<a href=\"https:\/\/nb1.hu\/blog\/regen-amikor-a-traktor-letolta-a-havat-ott-maradt-a-kereknyom-es-abban-vetodtunk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u00a0G\u00e1bor Kir\u00e1ly spoke<\/a>\u00a0about the secrets of the goalkeeping profession, in relation to his own career. For his part, self-criticism, consistency and the creation of real life situations came out during our interview. In addition, the role of goal-orientation and consistency as the secret of sustained outstanding goalkeeper performance emerged as a common point with Szabolcs Balajcza. Let's take a look at the factors that have defined the career of the former standout goalkeeper of Kaposv\u00e1r R\u00e1k\u00f3czi FC and \u00dajpest FC.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/nb1.hu\/blog\/edzoje-beszolt-neki-ez-motivalta-balajcza-szabolcsot\/\">Coach's criticism motivated Szabolcs Balajcza - nb1.hu<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Persistent parental support and defiance throughout your career<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\"I always knew I wanted to be a goalkeeper\" - started Szabolcs Balajcza. The goalkeeper has played in more than 300 first division matches for Kaposv\u00e1r R\u00e1k\u00f3czi FC and \u00dajpest FC. His parents gave him all the support he needed to become a professional goalkeeper. They sometimes spent their last forint to fill up their Lada car and take Szabolcs to his current match. \"Parental support is very important.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\"><p>For example, my mother regularly sewed the stain on my trousers, I played in my father's mechanic's gloves in the kindergarten, where there were two bins for the goal posts.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>- said the current goalkeeper coach of Pusk\u00e1s Akad\u00e9mia FC. Parental support was also needed. For example, when the future \u00dajpest favourite experienced a big break in his career at the age of 14.<br>To this day, it still makes him feel bad when, after a poor performance in a Kaposv\u00e1r junior match, his coach told him, \"As long as I'm the coach here, you won't play a minute.\" For three years after that, he spent his time on the bench, with only occasional opportunities to prove himself. Many would have quit, but his parents continued to take him to training. His father would encourage him during the tough times by saying, \"You're going to training, it will pay off in the long run.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He also developed a coping strategy of defiance as a result of the hurtful comment, which he says: \"The coach made me so defiant that it has stayed with me throughout my career.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This defiance was to show later, as goalkeeper for \u00dajpest FC, when he was benched in the summer of 2014 after Marko Dmitrovic was signed. \"At the time, everyone was at fault but me. I didn't even tell my goalkeeping coach, Bandi P\u00e1link\u00e1s, for two months,\" he said of his difficult time in \u00dajpest. Then the chance to win the Hungarian Cup gave him a new sense of purpose. He put his head in order and his \"vision\" became that he would lift the cup in the final. Under his leadership, the team finally won another prestigious title after 12 years. \"I felt like a hero in the final, we won on penalties against DVTK, one of the greatest moments of my career,\" he recalled of the climax of the cup run. And not only did he lift the trophy in the final, he even rested on the seat next to it on the bus ride home from the match.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=lwOBRoXsa9g\">25 May 2014 \u00dajpest - DVTK (Hungarian Cup final) - YouTube<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>A sense of purpose, responsibility and love of football<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The germ of purposefulness appeared in him as a kindergartener, during the Hungarian national football team's participation in the 1986 World Cup. \"Seeing a gentleman called Peter Disztl in goal was such a motivation for me that from then on I was Peter Disztl in training and on the field, saving shots,\" recalls the former standout goalkeeper, who made his debut in the top league at the age of 24.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>According to his dream, he became aware that he could become the first goalkeeper of Kaposv\u00e1r R\u00e1k\u00f3czi FC when he was 18 years old and joined the then second division team. \"Before that it was just a dream for me, but then it became an achievable goal,\" he said of his other vision. So much so that he made his league debut that season, and was even invited by national coach Barnabas Tornyi to play for the U21 national team. This confirmed to him that persistent training really does pay off, and that success has not made him complacent, but even more motivated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Goals have always been present in the life of Szabolcs Balajcza, who started a goalkeeping school in \u00dajpest after finishing his career. His professional development was noticed by the Pusk\u00e1s Akad\u00e9mia FC team, and his vision of working with adult goalkeepers at professional level was fulfilled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\"><p>I think the greatest value of the goalkeeper position is the sense of responsibility<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>- continued Szabolcs. His mother instilled this in him from childhood, and thanks to this he became captain of both R\u00e1k\u00f3czi Kaposv\u00e1r FC and \u00dajpest FC. Szabolcs Balajcza was clearly one of the captains who spoke to his team in private, listened to his colleagues and represented his team diplomatically to the club leaders. He was touched by the difficulties of others, helped his team-mates in everything, and earned respect with his empathy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=c57zfZjLGcE\">Balajcza Szabolcs Best of DVD.avi - YouTube<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He still keeps in touch with his former goalkeeper students, offering them advice when needed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In addition to the values mentioned above, Szabolcs Balajcza had a trump card in his bag from a young age, which has kept him in football since the age of 14 - despite the dismissive criticism of his coach at the time - and still does today: \"My love for football, my love for the goalkeeper's position helped me not to give up. In the evenings, we would drop our bags by the goalposts and play football on the pitch. I loved training, I still love the sport.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For this reason, he has become a role model for many young goalkeepers, just as he used to shout the name of P\u00e9ter Disztl after a save.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bevezet\u0151 A cikksorozat els\u0151 r\u00e9sz\u00e9ben\u00a0Kir\u00e1ly G\u00e1bor besz\u00e9lt\u00a0a kapus szakma titkair\u00f3l, saj\u00e1t p\u00e1lyafut\u00e1s\u00e1ra vonatkoztatva. R\u00e9sz\u00e9r\u0151l el\u0151ker\u00fclt az \u00f6nkritika, k\u00f6vetkezetess\u00e9g \u00e9s a val\u00f3s \u00e9lethelyzetek l\u00e9trehoz\u00e1sa az interj\u00fank sor\u00e1n. Emellett Balajcza Szabolccsal k\u00f6z\u00f6s pontk\u00e9nt a c\u00e9lorient\u00e1lts\u00e1g \u00e9s \u00e1lland\u00f3s\u00e1g szerepe is megjelenik mint a tart\u00f3san kiemelked\u0151 kapusteljes\u00edtm\u00e9ny titka. N\u00e9zz\u00fck meg, milyen t\u00e9nyez\u0151k hat\u00e1rozt\u00e1k meg a Kaposv\u00e1ri R\u00e1k\u00f3czi FC \u00e9s [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":844,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[6],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v14.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>EDZ\u0150JE BESZ\u00d3LT NEKI, EZ MOTIV\u00c1LTA BALAJCZA SZABOLCSOT - Sz\u00e1ntai Levente pszichol\u00f3gus<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/szantaipszichologus.hu\/en\/edzoje-beszolt-neki-ez-motivalta-balajcza-szabolcsot\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_GB\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"EDZ\u0150JE BESZ\u00d3LT NEKI, EZ MOTIV\u00c1LTA BALAJCZA SZABOLCSOT - Sz\u00e1ntai Levente pszichol\u00f3gus\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Bevezet\u0151 A cikksorozat els\u0151 r\u00e9sz\u00e9ben\u00a0Kir\u00e1ly G\u00e1bor besz\u00e9lt\u00a0a kapus szakma titkair\u00f3l, saj\u00e1t p\u00e1lyafut\u00e1s\u00e1ra vonatkoztatva. 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